When I was little, my parents would always call me by that name. However, I did reply nor came running towards them. This neologism seemed vague to me, not knowing what to do, I confronted my parents. "Your name is khuong," my parents would chastise me. And from that very day, I started to pick up on that name.
My dad gave me this nickname because I bear so much resemblance to him that it reminds him of his childhood. Both of these words come from the names of two towns in Vietnam where my dad grew up ; Hoi An and Hoa Khương. I learned that my grandma was also born in Hoi An and that my grandpa was born in Hoa Khương. It felt nice to have a clearer knowledge of the connections that "An Khương" has to my family.
"An Khương" was determined for me before I was even born. My Vietnamese name is a reminder of our ancestors, family background, and of who we are. My Vietnamese name has two parts, and both have different meanings. "An" means peace and "Khương" means success. With this in mind, I understand the meaning and value of my Vietnamese name; remembering and cherishing my Vietnamese name forever.
Gia Mẫn - An Khương - Như Ý
What's even cooler is both my older brother and younger sister have Vietnamese names that when combined with mines, translates to an intelligent, successful, and peaceful family who's dreams come true.